WHAT IS LOVE??

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				We’ve been given the impression that to define love is near to impossible. Maybe there’s a fear that if we define it, it would somehow be less powerful...less impactful...less exhilarating. Maybe we like the mystery of it. But is it really that complicated? Perhaps the complications surrounding love come from all “stuff” we add on to this powerful emotion. Lets drop all the baggage surrounding relationships and define what it is we are experiencing in the moment of love. Basic Components of Love What do you feel when you love someone? If distilled down to it’s core components, what would those be? Yes, love is an emotion, a feeling, a wanting, and a “being”. We know it feels good, but what specific feelings, wantings, and beings are present when we feel love? Here are the common denominators of love... Love is Accepting. Acceptance is labeling someone as "okay" and having no particular desire to change them. Who they are is perfectly fine with you. You pose no condition on whether you will love them or not. This is call unconditional love. When your love IS conditional, the moment they step outside your set of conditions, love wanes. Consequently, love is rarely a constant state but fluctuates based on our degree of acceptance. Love is Appreciating. Appreciation is one step beyond acceptance. Its when your focus is on what you like about another. We look at them and feel this sweeping appreciation for who they are, their joy, their insights, their humor, their companionship, etc. When someone says they are "in love" with another, they mean their appreciation is so enormous for this person that it consumes their every thought. ( "Oh man, he/she is so smart, attractive, funny, talented, etc." ..and if they are all these wonderful things AND they like me, I must be pretty darm wonderful too!) Love is Wanting Another to Feel Good. We want those we love to be happy, safe, healthy, and fulfilled. We want them to feel good in all ways, physically, mentally and emotionally. How Do We Express Love? We don’t always express our love. Love is a feeling and the expression of that feeling is separate. It’s an action. There’s a practical reason we don’t always express our love for another. It’s an issue of TIME. We only have 24 hours in a day (if you make it up that way). If the expression of love was a core ingredient to love, we would have to be stingy with who we loved, because there simply wouldn’t be enough time to demonstrate our love for everyone! If you see the distinction between the feeling and the expression, you can then love endless numbers of people. Attention Love expressed is when you give your attention, your time, your focus to someone. Webster defines attention as “the giving of one’s mind to something." There are many ways in which we give our attention to another. We use our five senses. Our ears to listen. Being completely present with the one who is speaking. Our eyes, watching another, undivided attention. Tasting/smelling? (I’ll let you figure that one out). Touching, giving a hug, holding a hand, a caress, or sexual expression. How you express your love depends on the type of relationship.

Should I Confess . . =='

Again today i looked into the sky aimless
I tried to draw your face slowly
Your lips, your eyes are so lovely today
I tell my self that i need to forget you
I keep telling myself that can't see you anymore
But you're the only one for me
It can't be anyone else
Will you accept my heart now?
Should i tell you that i love you?
Do you know how i feel when i look you everyday?
If you stay by my side i don't want anything else
Will you just stay by my side?
Should i try to run to you?
I want to know how you feel about me
That's the only thing i need
I can't imagine day without you
Will you accept my feeling for you?
I try to remember everything that you did for me in the past
Do you know how i feel when i look you everyday?
If you stay by my side i don't want anything else
Will you please stay by my side and protect me?
The cold looks you always gave me, and the way you used to talk to me
They don't matter to me anymore
Will you tell me how you feel about me?
I love you...I love you, I love you more than anyone else in the world
If you give into this love i won't except anything else
You're enough for me
Should i find the courage to confess to you?
I need to know how you feel about me right now
I don't desire anyone else
I can't live one day without you
I only love one person
The person i love is you

about love

one more thing about love , dont trust him when he say he will spend the rest of his life with you until he say " I DO " ... love him with all of heart but dont trust him when he say i love u , and trust him when he say "im gonna leave u ! " so u need to move on........

Through the Eyes

♥I think I never really fall in love. ♥ I considered falling in love is just an infatuation. Love needs to stand the test of time. ♥First impressions are not important to me. ♥I always fall in love with men who have beautiful eyes. ♥The first thing I do look at when I meet a person would be them eyes. ♥You are able to tell quite a bit about a person from the eyes alone. ♥Chronic emotions are seen through the eyes. ♥Whether a person is angry, sad, happy or moody, you can tell by just looking at the eyes. ♥Likewise, when you first meet a person, no matter how big a smile or how firm a handshake the person might give you, the true emotions is only seen through the eyes.♥

♥Talk To Me♥

I love you so much.. But I can’t say that I can’t live without you
Because if you leave me, my life must go on
But all I can say is my world would suck without you
Why we always fighting for nothing??
I’m really tired, can you stop being like that?
It’s totally hurt me, you know?? I miss you don’t you know that??
I know I may not good as your previous love.. But I know that I really love you
More than words, more than I know, more than I did before.. Can you please just make it easy for us?
You know I miss you all the time
Why it is wrong if I text you??Why it is wrong if I want you to text me always?? Why you never been the first person to call me or text me first??
Is it so difficult for you to do the same things I always do to you??
You say you care about me.. But what do you do to make me believe you?
Can you please at least show me how you really fell about me?? Can you please show me that you care??
Am I the only 1 in this relationship? Tell me... make myself clear
Let me know if you don’t love me anymore.. Say it out loud if you never care bout me
I will take care my own heart. Like usual. Like I always did whenever I fell hurt..

Sadness :(

What Is Sadness?

Sadness is a feeling — it's one of the many normal human emotions, or moods, we all have. Sadness is the emotion people feel when they've lost something important, or when they have been disappointed about something, or when something sad has happened to them or to someone else. When they're lonely, people often feel sad.

When you're sad, the world may seem dark and unfriendly. You might feel like you have nothing to look forward to. The hurt deep inside may crush your usually good mood.

Sadness makes you feel like crying, and sometimes the tears are hard to stop. Crying often makes you feel better.

Sometimes when your mood is sad, you just feel like being alone for a little while. Or you might want someone to comfort you or just keep you company while you go through the sad feeling. Talking about what has made you sad usually helps the sad feeling melt away.

When sadness starts to go away, it can feel like a heavy blanket is being lifted from your shoulders.

When Is It Natural to Feel Sad?

Feeling sad every once in a while is natural. Maybe you didn't get something you really wanted. Maybe you miss somebody. Maybe somebody you really like doesn't want to be friends, and you don't feel so great about yourself. Maybe an illness or condition gets in the way of doing some things you want to do or makes you different from your friends. There are lots of reasons that people feel sadness.

Most of the time, sadness is because of a loss or separation, a difficult change or disappointment about something, or relationship problems.

L.O.V.E ♥ H.A.T.E

I LOVE YOU

Wonderful words, quick spoken

Wonderful words, quick broken

I HATE YOU

Painful words, quick to be said

Painful words, becoming sad

LOVE and HATE opposite to each other

Or is it? Both can be such a bother

When you are not near, I fell sad

I say I HATE you, and fell bad.

But when you are here, I’m happy

I say I LOVE you, and you LOVE me.

I HATE the strange feeling

I HATE the sleepless night

I LOVE when you call

I LOVE when you hold me tight

So when you are not here, I HATE the feeling called LOVELO

I won’t deny I absolutely do

But those two words, HATE & LOVE

Are said in the same sentences…..

I HATE that I Love you…